Just wanted to wish all of my wonderful friends a very Merry Christmas!! I hope you are surrounded by love at this wonderful season!!
Sunday, December 25, 2011
Monday, December 12, 2011
I Know What Boys Like
One of the suggestions I received as a topic to write about was "What men need to know about women". I thought this was a great idea! Now, I'm not saying I'm an expert on men.... I don't exactly have an outstanding track record when it comes to dating and love, but I will throw my two cents into the ring (as well as a few other comments/questions I received from loyal readers).
I guess I can start with personal thoughts on the topic. Guys need to know that not every girl is a slut. There are still some of us who enjoy good conversation with an intelligent guy. That being said, guys need to know that, yes, women deserve equality and all that St. Kate's jazz, BUT that doesn't mean that chivalry can die! As a strong, independent woman I still want a guy to open doors for me, pull out my chair, and come to the door to pick me up. It's a sign of respect for women and I'm not saying it's a one way street. You show us respect, and we will show you the respect you deserve for being a gentleman. Guys also need to know that some ladies are shy! Myself included in that! Sometimes, we need you to take the first leap and ask us out. I know that there are shy guys as well, but MAN UP! ;) Just ask! As one friend put it- "If you like a girl, TELL HER!!". I couldn't agree more! I guess the same could be said for women. If we like someone, just tell them. I guess, for me personally, I have done that in the past and have gotten that horrible rejection and I am just so afraid that it will happen again, but now it will hurt even worse because I really care for a certain person.
I'm sure guys are thinking "Well, women need to stop coding what they are saying and just come out and say it!". Well, that may be true but sometimes you just need to read between the lines a bit. Think back to all those romantic comedies that every girlfriend has drug you to. For example, if a girl says "My hands are cold" she does NOT want your gloves. She wants you to hold her hand. And sometimes guys don't even understand when you tell them point blank what you mean. When I say "I wait for the guy to make the first move", that means YOU (the guy) needs to hold my hand first and kiss me first. And when I tell you that yes you can kiss me..... that means you CAN KISS ME!!
Also, guys, you don't need to be this gangster type guy for girls to like you. The only girls that attracts are desperate hoes. (Sorry if that's you!). But I guess some people like that. Not this girl. Pull up your pants, turn your hat around, and drop the thug talk. You're not from the 'hood', you're from Woodbury. I'm impressed when a guy knows how to use your, you're, there, they're, and their properly. Grammar turns me on ;) .
Some friends sent me messages with things they wanted me to include. One friend said "Girls want to be loved, plain and simple. And most of us don't need expensive dates. We would rather cuddle at home and watch a movie". Very true! In the long run, all anyone can ask for is to be loved and wanted by someone. On the topic of dates, we don't always need to go to the fanciest restaurant. Occasionally, that is a nice change of pace, but staying in with a movie and a cuddle buddy is perfect too! In addition, you don't always need to spend your money on us. An occasional bouquet of flowers is lovely. And you don't even need to go to a spendy floral shop. Just go to Target or Walmart....... hell, even Walgreens has a few flowers! Just a little something to show that you are thinking about us.
Another friend asked "How come it seems most women don't give the good guys a chance?". The only answer I can come up with is that sometimes it's hard to find the good guys. It seems like us women have to go through a lot of jerks before we realize that the good guys are out there. We also know that there are a lot of guys out there that front as good guys and then turn out to be asses, which make them no different from the other jerks. A woman's heart is fragile and there are some of us that guard it and are scared of it getting dropped again. But guys..... know that we will put our heart on the line for you if we think you are worthy. Sometimes that's a stupid decision, but that's what life is all about. As previously stated, JUST ASK US OUT!!!!!!!
I think a friend of mine summed it up quite nicely, " I am convinced that guys will never learn anything they should know about women". I think that is a great statement! No matter how direct we are with the guys in our lives, sometimes they just don't get it. But I hope that this post will help decode our sex a little bit and will give guys a glimpse into what women want.
As always, thank you for reading and for the support. Please feel free to leave thoughts, as well as suggestions for future posts! Thanks!
I guess I can start with personal thoughts on the topic. Guys need to know that not every girl is a slut. There are still some of us who enjoy good conversation with an intelligent guy. That being said, guys need to know that, yes, women deserve equality and all that St. Kate's jazz, BUT that doesn't mean that chivalry can die! As a strong, independent woman I still want a guy to open doors for me, pull out my chair, and come to the door to pick me up. It's a sign of respect for women and I'm not saying it's a one way street. You show us respect, and we will show you the respect you deserve for being a gentleman. Guys also need to know that some ladies are shy! Myself included in that! Sometimes, we need you to take the first leap and ask us out. I know that there are shy guys as well, but MAN UP! ;) Just ask! As one friend put it- "If you like a girl, TELL HER!!". I couldn't agree more! I guess the same could be said for women. If we like someone, just tell them. I guess, for me personally, I have done that in the past and have gotten that horrible rejection and I am just so afraid that it will happen again, but now it will hurt even worse because I really care for a certain person.
I'm sure guys are thinking "Well, women need to stop coding what they are saying and just come out and say it!". Well, that may be true but sometimes you just need to read between the lines a bit. Think back to all those romantic comedies that every girlfriend has drug you to. For example, if a girl says "My hands are cold" she does NOT want your gloves. She wants you to hold her hand. And sometimes guys don't even understand when you tell them point blank what you mean. When I say "I wait for the guy to make the first move", that means YOU (the guy) needs to hold my hand first and kiss me first. And when I tell you that yes you can kiss me..... that means you CAN KISS ME!!
Also, guys, you don't need to be this gangster type guy for girls to like you. The only girls that attracts are desperate hoes. (Sorry if that's you!). But I guess some people like that. Not this girl. Pull up your pants, turn your hat around, and drop the thug talk. You're not from the 'hood', you're from Woodbury. I'm impressed when a guy knows how to use your, you're, there, they're, and their properly. Grammar turns me on ;) .
Some friends sent me messages with things they wanted me to include. One friend said "Girls want to be loved, plain and simple. And most of us don't need expensive dates. We would rather cuddle at home and watch a movie". Very true! In the long run, all anyone can ask for is to be loved and wanted by someone. On the topic of dates, we don't always need to go to the fanciest restaurant. Occasionally, that is a nice change of pace, but staying in with a movie and a cuddle buddy is perfect too! In addition, you don't always need to spend your money on us. An occasional bouquet of flowers is lovely. And you don't even need to go to a spendy floral shop. Just go to Target or Walmart....... hell, even Walgreens has a few flowers! Just a little something to show that you are thinking about us.
Another friend asked "How come it seems most women don't give the good guys a chance?". The only answer I can come up with is that sometimes it's hard to find the good guys. It seems like us women have to go through a lot of jerks before we realize that the good guys are out there. We also know that there are a lot of guys out there that front as good guys and then turn out to be asses, which make them no different from the other jerks. A woman's heart is fragile and there are some of us that guard it and are scared of it getting dropped again. But guys..... know that we will put our heart on the line for you if we think you are worthy. Sometimes that's a stupid decision, but that's what life is all about. As previously stated, JUST ASK US OUT!!!!!!!
I think a friend of mine summed it up quite nicely, " I am convinced that guys will never learn anything they should know about women". I think that is a great statement! No matter how direct we are with the guys in our lives, sometimes they just don't get it. But I hope that this post will help decode our sex a little bit and will give guys a glimpse into what women want.
As always, thank you for reading and for the support. Please feel free to leave thoughts, as well as suggestions for future posts! Thanks!
Saturday, December 3, 2011
Tis the Season!
The holiday season is upon us and Christmas looms in the very near future. To get us all in the holiday spirit, I thought I would share with all of you my favorite Christmas movies! I thought long and hard (that's what she said) about what movies I watch EVERY year at this time and the list that follows is what I came up with!!
1.) It's A Wonderful Life: I LOVE this classic! Its a favorite because of the message it sends- every person has a purpose and is loved, even in times of hopelessness. Plus- Jimmy Stewart ain't bad to look at either! ;) But seriously, it's a classic (and yes it IS in black in white) so if you haven't seen it, WATCH it.
2.) A Christmas Story: Who DOESN'T like this movie? It is a hilarious Christmas movie that is timeless! The little brother is a scene stealer and the fact that he can't put his arms down while wearing his snow suit makes me giggle with glee! So I double dog dare you to watch this great movie! ;)
3.) White Christmas: Now I am shocked this movie is on my list but I realized that I absolutely LOVE this Christmas classic. Being that it is one of Mom's favorites, we seem to watch it when ever it is on. By the end of December I HATE it, but it really is a wonderful movie! The singing and dance numbers are spectacular. Plus there is even a little tear jerker moment. Love it!
4.) A Charlie Brown Christmas: If you DON'T like this movie, we can't be friends! I LOVE LOVE LOVE this one and have loved it since I was little. It doesn't feel like Christmas until I watch this movie! I could probably recite it word for word but that's not the point! Plus- Elvis reminds me of Snoopy so this year I will love it that much more!
5.) Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer: This is a good one for all ages. My mom even has to admit that she adores this short film. The island of misfit toys just seem so welcoming of social outcasts! At least I know where to go!
6.) Frosty the Snowman: Happy Birthday! I love that chilly willy guy and his caring nature. He is willing to sacrifice himself for his new found friend. Plus that rabbit is adorable!
7.) Frosty Returns: This one hasn't always been around but I enjoy the music in it and I like to think that someday there really will be a spray in a can that all you have to do is point it at the snow and press and ALL the snow disappears! No need for shovels! What a wonderful world that would be.
8.) Dr. Seuss's How the Grinch Stole Christmas: Plain and simple- it's a straight up classic. And Max? What a cutie! Enough said.
9.) Home Alone: I can remember watching this as a little kid and just laughing and laughing! Now, as an adult, I get more of the adult humor and love it so much more! That kid is soo talented and hilarious! His screaming faces are priceless!
10.) Home Alone 2: Lost in New York: See above! But seriously, a GREAT sequel. Some of the jokes and things like that are predictable/repeats from the first one, but again, they still make me laugh every time!
11.) The Family Stone: This is an unconventional Christmas favorite. It doesn't have that happy cheer, but the message of a strong family really rings true for me and I absolutely adore that. I cry every year I watch it, but it is most certainly worth it!
12.) The Santa Clause: Tim Allen is spectacular in this classic! Again, it's not Christmas until I watch it. And come on! A young David Krumholtz? YES please!
13.) Elf: SOOOOO hilarious!!! Who doesn't watch Elf around the holidays? Plus you get to hear Zooey Deschanel sing which is always a treat! Buddy the elf, what's your favorite color? Classic!
14.) The Muppet Christmas Carol: This was one of my absolute favorites as a kid, but then I didn't watch it for a while. A few years ago, I was cleaning and found it so I watched it and fell in love with the Muppets all over again! I do have to say that there is one scene that scared the shit out of me as a kid. When I watched it as an adult...... it still scared the shit out of me! If you watch it, be forewarned that Marley and Marley are freaking SCARY!!!!!!!!!!!!
15.) Love Actually: I love the multiple stories that all connect somehow. It is just a cute movie with cute stories that make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside.
16.) National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation: Chevy Chase as Clark Griswold= pure comedy gold. Enough said.
17.) Jingle All the Way: Yeah, that Arnold Schwarzenegger movie...... Realistically speaking, this should be an honorable mention but whatever. It isn't a great movie. The only reason I like it is because it was filmed here in Minnesota and because Phil Hartman is a total ass in it!
That's all I have! If you haven't seen a movie or two from the list, you should check it out. I am always up for a good Christmas movie marathon! Just let me know! Being jobless lends plenty of time to having a social life!
Also! I have gotten a few suggestions for future blogs (Thank you to those people!!) and I am always looking for more! Keep 'em coming! And remember that no topic is turned down! As always, thanks for reading and thanks for the support!
1.) It's A Wonderful Life: I LOVE this classic! Its a favorite because of the message it sends- every person has a purpose and is loved, even in times of hopelessness. Plus- Jimmy Stewart ain't bad to look at either! ;) But seriously, it's a classic (and yes it IS in black in white) so if you haven't seen it, WATCH it.
2.) A Christmas Story: Who DOESN'T like this movie? It is a hilarious Christmas movie that is timeless! The little brother is a scene stealer and the fact that he can't put his arms down while wearing his snow suit makes me giggle with glee! So I double dog dare you to watch this great movie! ;)
3.) White Christmas: Now I am shocked this movie is on my list but I realized that I absolutely LOVE this Christmas classic. Being that it is one of Mom's favorites, we seem to watch it when ever it is on. By the end of December I HATE it, but it really is a wonderful movie! The singing and dance numbers are spectacular. Plus there is even a little tear jerker moment. Love it!
4.) A Charlie Brown Christmas: If you DON'T like this movie, we can't be friends! I LOVE LOVE LOVE this one and have loved it since I was little. It doesn't feel like Christmas until I watch this movie! I could probably recite it word for word but that's not the point! Plus- Elvis reminds me of Snoopy so this year I will love it that much more!
5.) Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer: This is a good one for all ages. My mom even has to admit that she adores this short film. The island of misfit toys just seem so welcoming of social outcasts! At least I know where to go!
6.) Frosty the Snowman: Happy Birthday! I love that chilly willy guy and his caring nature. He is willing to sacrifice himself for his new found friend. Plus that rabbit is adorable!
7.) Frosty Returns: This one hasn't always been around but I enjoy the music in it and I like to think that someday there really will be a spray in a can that all you have to do is point it at the snow and press and ALL the snow disappears! No need for shovels! What a wonderful world that would be.
8.) Dr. Seuss's How the Grinch Stole Christmas: Plain and simple- it's a straight up classic. And Max? What a cutie! Enough said.
9.) Home Alone: I can remember watching this as a little kid and just laughing and laughing! Now, as an adult, I get more of the adult humor and love it so much more! That kid is soo talented and hilarious! His screaming faces are priceless!
10.) Home Alone 2: Lost in New York: See above! But seriously, a GREAT sequel. Some of the jokes and things like that are predictable/repeats from the first one, but again, they still make me laugh every time!
11.) The Family Stone: This is an unconventional Christmas favorite. It doesn't have that happy cheer, but the message of a strong family really rings true for me and I absolutely adore that. I cry every year I watch it, but it is most certainly worth it!
12.) The Santa Clause: Tim Allen is spectacular in this classic! Again, it's not Christmas until I watch it. And come on! A young David Krumholtz? YES please!
13.) Elf: SOOOOO hilarious!!! Who doesn't watch Elf around the holidays? Plus you get to hear Zooey Deschanel sing which is always a treat! Buddy the elf, what's your favorite color? Classic!
14.) The Muppet Christmas Carol: This was one of my absolute favorites as a kid, but then I didn't watch it for a while. A few years ago, I was cleaning and found it so I watched it and fell in love with the Muppets all over again! I do have to say that there is one scene that scared the shit out of me as a kid. When I watched it as an adult...... it still scared the shit out of me! If you watch it, be forewarned that Marley and Marley are freaking SCARY!!!!!!!!!!!!
15.) Love Actually: I love the multiple stories that all connect somehow. It is just a cute movie with cute stories that make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside.
16.) National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation: Chevy Chase as Clark Griswold= pure comedy gold. Enough said.
17.) Jingle All the Way: Yeah, that Arnold Schwarzenegger movie...... Realistically speaking, this should be an honorable mention but whatever. It isn't a great movie. The only reason I like it is because it was filmed here in Minnesota and because Phil Hartman is a total ass in it!
That's all I have! If you haven't seen a movie or two from the list, you should check it out. I am always up for a good Christmas movie marathon! Just let me know! Being jobless lends plenty of time to having a social life!
Also! I have gotten a few suggestions for future blogs (Thank you to those people!!) and I am always looking for more! Keep 'em coming! And remember that no topic is turned down! As always, thanks for reading and thanks for the support!
Here are some festive Christmas pictures for you to enjoy!
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